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There has been such a total turnaround
in Jimmy Ong’s life; he is like
a new man living a new life. What God has done for him
spurs him to reach out to many others. Trinitarian magazine
meets this Care & Connect champion who has invited
more than 100 friends, and successfully brought 40 of
them to church.
WHAT SPURS YOU TO INVITE
SO MANY PEOPLE?
Because of what I have gone through, I feel that life
is very fragile. Before I knew Christ, I was a lost
sheep. I had a ‘heck-care’ attitude at home,
at work and towards life. I took things for granted
and couldn’t be bothered with anything, let alone
my family and parents!
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I had a punctured lung and almost lost my life.
My doctor said, “Your life is a bonus from now on.” |
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My business went bust and I was saddled
with overwhelming debts. I was made a bankrupt. There
has been such a total turnaround in Jimmy Ong’s
life; he is like a new man living a new life. What God
has done for him spurs him to reach out to many others.
Trinitarian magazine meets this Care & Connect champion
who has invited more than 100 friends, and successfully
brought 40 of them to church. |
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My marriage failed and the whole family fell
apart. I had custody of one of my two children,
my son Shaun. Shaun was a high-spirited boy and a caring
son, well-liked and loved by all who knew him. He meant
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My son Shaun was diagnosed with last stage brain
cancer. I did everything I knew to save my one
and only son. I turned to every single thing and man to
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Yet after seven months and seven days, I lost him to brain
cancer. He was 10 years old then. I felt like I had lost everything,
and that it was all over for me. Indeed I was a wretched man,
like a bird with broken wings. The turning point in my life
came when I recalled Shaun’s last days in the hospital
and the ordeal we were going through. I was utterly helpless
and deeply pained by the sufferings he was going through,
and asked him if he was afraid to die.
Shaun said, ‘No, Dad. When I asked “Why?”,
he replied, ‘If I die, Dad, I will be seeing
Jesus.’
Because of my son’s hunger for Christ even to his last
breath, the strength and peace that he demonstrated and all
the signifi cant signs that unfolded before me, I
realised that there is indeed a God and He has a
purpose for all that has happened in my life.
I decided to surrender my life to God, and God did a great restoration
work in my life. He has mercifully blessed and restored my life.
Christ is able to redeem all my mistakes and make my life new.
Today:
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I am blessed with great health. By
His grace, I kept my promise to my late son to quit smoking,
a habit I have had for more than 20 years. Today, I can
even run 7-10 km every week. |
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My career has been restored. Today
I hold a management position in the marine, oil and gas
industry. |
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My broken relationship with my parents has been
restored, and we have great fellowship every
time we meet. |
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God sent me a wonderful and God-loving woman,
Tricia, whom I married in January this year. She is an
incredible blessing to me. She keeps me grounded, makes
up for my weaknesses and complements me perfectly! |
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After searching for a church for more than a
year, I stepped into Trinity and found a spiritual
family where I can belong. |
Indeed, I have never felt so at home and at ease until I
stepped into Trinity. It is a feeling of being welcomed home
into the family after a long and tiring journey out in the
desert! My spiritual walk with God has flourished
and grown so rapidly since I have been here.
I was introduced to carecell, and boy! I am in awe of my
carecell, Farrer Harvesters from South, Trinity@Adam. Kindness,
warmth, care, love, peace, joy, laughter, Bible knowledge…
you name it, they have it! They were with me every
single step from day one till today, helping me to
grow in my relationship with God, helping me in all my needs,
prepping me for my water baptism and my wedding. Indeed they
are my extended family!
What God has done for me, no man can
do; only God! He has literally restored everything that
I had lost – and more! But that is not all. I
had been a bankrupt for years, with all the inconveniences
that came along with it. I had tried to get myself discharged,
but was unsuccessful. When I got baptised, as
I went down into the waters of baptism, I cried out
to the Lord, “God, You have been faithful
to make everything new for me,
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but there is just one thing that remains: I surrender
this issue of bankruptcy to You.” Right after
the weekend of my baptism, I received a letter. It was a notice
from the court that I had been discharged as a bankrupt
on 16 November – the Friday before my baptism weekend.
It was incredible. God is so good. Indeed, He has made everything
new for me!
As I look back at my life, I realise that God has been pursuing
me all these years. He was with me all this while. Though
it has taken me a long time to realise how much my Father
loved me, yet it is never too late to give my life
to Him – to serve Him and do His work of bringing the
lost to know of Him. Today, I am no longer like the
lost sheep; I know where I am heading. I live my life to do
God’s work, and trust God to handle the things that
I am not able to. What I can do in return for His great love
is to simply share His love and all that He has done in my
life. It is very easy to speak and profess our love for God
by going to church, attending carecells, serving and reading
the Bible. But all these amount to nothing if I do not make
my life count for Him. The life I have and live is not about
me, but about what I can do to for Jesus.
Reaching out to people and sharing about Jesus is my intentional
goal and purpose. Bringing and connecting a friend
is a very simple and small task compared to what God has done
for me. Talking to people, following up and encouraging
them… it is all very simple. I leave all my own problems
and diffi culties in life for God to handle. It’s an
act of faith – trusting God that as we do His work,
He will do what we cannot do in our lives!
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HOW MANY
PEOPLE DID YOU INVITE, AND HOW DID YOU DO IT?
For the water baptism service where powerful life stories
were shared, I invited 45 friends – and 21 actually
came. For the ‘I Need a Miracle!’ Power
Weekend last August, I invited 120 people, and 17 came.
I have a regular contact list of friends which I have
built up over time. I make it a point to keep in touch
or follow up with them, through calls, SMS or emails.
For these events, I called each of these people personally
to invite them.
The key challenge I face is how to approach people
without them feeling uncomfortable; inviting them to
an exciting and fun gathering. These people know me
and I usually begin with sharing on what God has done
for me.
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Sometimes I ask questions (whether they have a spiritual belief
and what they do or turn to in times of difficulties) and from
there, I share my personal testimony.
YOUR COLLEAGUES PETER AND PRISCILLIA
HAVE RECEIVED CHRIST. TELL US MORE ABOUT THAT.
I have been working together with Priscillia for the past
six to seven years. Many people in the company have seen the
changes in me since I came to know God. I knew that she goes
to church on and off, and took the opportunity to invite her
to the water baptism service. She was touched by the many
testimonies that were shared and answered the altar call to
accept Christ.
For Peter, I saw a sense of emptiness in him and reached
out to him. Peter saw how God had touched and changed my life.
He accepted my invitation to come to church and gave his life
to Jesus that weekend. God has done much for him as well.
Our colleagues have commented that they can see the difference
in him. God has also blessed him with a relationship.
I am very happy to see their lives changed! And God is still
doing His work among my friends and colleagues. In fact, just
this Easter, my colleague Kris Lee and her three daughters
also received Christ. So the gift goes on!
Peter Tan
assistant sales manager and team leader
What made you accept Jimmy’s invitation?
Jimmy and I have been colleagues since 1995. Jimmy is
very different from the early days before he became a Christian.
There is a peace in his demeanour. I know he has gone
through much in life - bankruptcy, divorce, illness, challenges
in the family, bereavement – and yet there is a peace
that he has. He has been talking to me about his God and I was
curious. He said something like ‘I can talk to my God’,
and I was curious to find out more. Share
with us your impression when you came to Trinity. What led
you to accept Jesus? I fi rst came in October 2007.
Prior to that, I had never stepped into church before, not
even at the gates. The company I keep is from a very different
world; my friends are the very rowdy type. My first impression
was that Christianity feels very diff erent from other religions
I know. It is a very new thing for me, especially the part
about talking to God and Him speaking to us.
How long have you been attending Trinity?
More than 6 months now.
What made you decide to make Trinity
your home church? Jimmy’s carecell members! Everyone
is very friendly and encouraging, and I enjoy their company.
They have been very caring and are always inviting me to join
them.
What made you decide to join a carecell?
How has the carecell been a blessing to you? I have only attended
the formal carecell meeting once so far. I have not been able
to join regularly because of my work schedule. But the carecell
members are very warm, and I usually join them for lunch after
service on Sunday, going to different places to makan
(eat).
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Since then, how has your life changed?
I had a health problem for more than 10 years. The amazing
thing is, since I came to church and gave my life to Jesus,
the internal bleeding stopped! It came back again recently,
but it is not that serious and I am praying to God for my
complete healing. Besides improvement in my health, there
is also a great sense of peace and calm that I have never
had. My job is very hectic and fast-paced, but I no
longer feel so stressed, like I did in the past. It feels
so much easier to achieve my sales target nowadays
– and I know this is all because God has helped me,
bringing people to call and contact me. I used to be worried
and stressed up about meeting the targets, but now I’m
learning to enjoy the work I do. Also, it does not feel so
routine. In fact, I have just been promoted to a team leader.
I am very thankful to God for answering my prayers –
in terms of health and work!
Praying every night is also a new experience; I have
a new peace and can rest much better. I fi nd a greater sense
of meaning in my life now. Also, there is a sense
of belonging to the carecell.
Priscillia Yang
project administrator
What made you accept Jimmy’s
invitation? I used to go to church for special events
at the invitation of friends but I’ve never attended
church regularly. I have never given my life to Jesus, though
a friend did pray for me many years ago.
Jimmy is my colleague and we are good friends. I
see a drastic transformation in him… He is like a different
man altogether! The other reason why I accepted Jimmy’s
invitation was because I was going through a rough patch and
was feeling quite down. I didn’t feel like being alone
so I decided to come to church.
Share with us your impression when
you came to trinity. What led you to accept Jesus?
The water baptism testimonies were very touching. I cried
as I listened to the stories of the people and how God changed
their lives for the better. I felt a great need for comfort
and strength and decided to accept Jesus as my personal Lord.
You could say it was also a case of being at the right place
at the right time.
How long have you been attending Trinity?
For more than 6 months now, since November 2007.
What made you decide to make Trinity
your home church?
I was feeling very helpless and alone, and the only one who
could help me was Jesus. At the same time, knowing Jimmy and
his friends gave me a sense of belonging. Among the different
churches that I have visited, I find the people here
in Trinity very warm and caring. They make me feel really
welcome, and there is genuine concern and love.
What made you decide to join a carecell?
How has the carecell been a blessing to you? I have
attended carecell 5-6 times. Having friends to rally round
and support me helps me feel that I am not alone.
Since then, how has your life changed?
I don’t feel alone anymore, since I now have
a spiritual family to share my burdens and difficulties with.
I also know that God is there to help me whatever my difficulties
may be. There is a greater sense of peace in my life now!
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